Wishes...

If a genie grants you three wishes, what would you wish for?

- Enough money to live comfortably for the rest of my life
- Good health with no life-threatening illnesses and happiness for myself, my family and friends.

And, ermm…

- I would wish for more wishes! :))

World Peace!

The selfish husband!

Some people are selfish in almost every aspects of their life. They must have everything in their ways in no uncertain terms. This sounds like the behavior of a spoiled child and how do we live with selfish and uncaring husband? The rules of marriage required both are treated equally. All too often the husband thinks only of himself and his needs. This type of behaviour has to be confronted without anger. So all wifes, standup for yourself and remain calm. All husbands needs to know that a marriage is a partnership and not a place for the husband to think about himself. Although it is impossible to get along with a selfish husband who must have it his way, it is possible to avoid divorce!

Welcome to the most challenging world, Arissa!

Hello February 2011.

Whenever February arrives, we usually thinking of love, chocolates wrapped in red foil, roses and heart. And why is it roses or these chocolates are the popular demand only in February? Maybe there are few trivia lies behind it. But anyway, i have my own stories of February, at least for this year ('',). Well after 9+ months of waiting, Alhamdulillah and Praised to God, the presence of Arissa on the 5th February 2011 into ur marriage have brighten, lighten and cherish our life. We've been blessed. It's worth the pain and waiting. So here's the short recaps of the waiting :)

4th February 2011
10.30am: Tawaf Jusco Equine
12.30pm: Home sweet home. Had a beauty sleep till late evening. And MIL cooked for us that day.
10.30pm: Contraction started at every 10 minutes. Decided to wait as the next follow up checkup with Dr Nazri is the next morning.

5th February 2011
9.30am: Headed to KPJ Selangor
10.30am: Undergo the Cardiotogography test (CTG). CTG is the test of recording the fetal heartbeat and the uterine contractions during pregnancy. The results showed that the heartbeat is non active with minimal movement. Contractions started at every 7 minutes.
11.00am: Meet Dr Nazri
11.30am: Admitted
1.10pm: Induced
2.00pm: Undergo the next CTG test. Still, the results showed the same. Contraction started at every 5 minutes.
5.30pm: Went for water breaking process. Found out that the amniotic fluid was brownish-yellow. This is the sign of baby's distress. Thus i need to go for the delivery process immediately. Khasif looked so and sooo anxious. Im speechless. So Mama just says Yes for ceaser.
6.00pm: Prepared for the next procedures. PILs arrived.
7.10pm: Went for OT
7.23pm: Safely delivered Arissa. Thanked God!
8.30pm: I was sent back to my room :)

Alhamdulillah. How Great Allah is! What a wonderful and blessed life we have now. Praised to God for the wonderful moment!

Despite of having a great February, it's been a year since Mohd Faris B Khasif left us. Al fatihah. May Allah blessing will always be with him.

So all the best to my besties who are currently counting the months + days (You know who you are). Take the best care of ur self and of course, the baby!





Chow...

Welcome 2011!

A month feels like a week. That’s how fast my life is now. Not complaining but thanking God for all the blessing in life. Praise to God. Hope it's not too late to say farewell to 2010 to all. Hey, people are celebrating Eidul Fitr for month. So I guess at this particulate moment, it’s not wrong to wish everyone happy New Year. Welcome 2011!

So what are my resolutions for 2011? Tradition dictates that every 365 days, you should try to kick bad habits and start your life anew. When I was younger, I did these whole lists of New Year resolutions (of which I can’t even remember of what is it by the end of December), and half of which I broke within the first month or even the first week of New Year. Learning from experience, my New Year resolutions list gets shorter and shorter as the years go by.

So for 2011, my lists would be:

- To save more and spend less. To pay off debt. Easier said than done, but I will try!
- To be more focused, more efficient and productive in the office. It’s not that I’m not being “that” for 2010, but I’m hoping I can do it better. Though I might have looked like I achieved a bit of something for 2010, a lot of time it was quite a last minute work. I need to be more motivated. And YES, I’m also hoping to be paid with higher salary.
- I desire to be a better Muslim and slayer to Allah and I want to be able to read the Quran regularly and not just do the seasonal Ramadan reading. I wish that I could advance my Islamic knowledge where I would be implementing what I have learned.
- To be a great partner, friend, mummy (Insha’Allah), daughter and colleague to loved ones. I’m hoping that I could spend lots of quality time with them. For the past years, there were so many people in my lives that I would want to reach out or spend time with. I love all those people out there but it just that I can’t find the right time to spend with. But what is love if it’s not shown in actions right? So hopefully, I’ll be able to show it in more practical ways this year!
- Last but not least, to put down weight. I have gained so many kilos so far in my pregnancy which I'm not really sure how. My aim is to lose back those kilos during my confinement. Need to work real hard for this.

So let’s have a great start for January 2011 and hope for a better love in February 2011 (incase I have no time to update this blog in February)

Happy Independence Day to all Malaysians!!

Happy Independence Day!

I would like to wish all Malaysians a Happy 53rd Independence Day.
Born and bred as a Malaysian for the past 26 years and yet I am still living in Malaysia. I survive! Not necessarily those who choose to stay back in Malaysia would strive to earn a living and lack behind to those who graduated and worked in the developed countries.
Way back when I was in primary or secondary, Independence Day was celebrated with so much joy and happiness: late sleep just because of the fireworks and wake up early for the National Parade.

After school, Independence Day was celebrated much less. But that’s doesn’t means the enthusiasm gone. Being patriotic doesn’t ONLY mean that you’re willing to sacrifice for the country. Your contribution to the economic development and Live happily and peacefully within races, it call patriotic too.

As the country is getting older, I really hope whoever rule the country will give their best effort on keeping this country peaceful and harmony. Lets different races blend in together without barriers and lets religious activities carries out without fear. War will not get us anywhere. There are much more to do with love than hate. Sometimes, a majority of us tend to think that the grass is greener on the other side. “Hujan emas di negeri orang, hujan batu di negeri sendiri, lebih baik hujan batu di negeri sendiri”. It’s a Malay proverb, meaning that although there are many good things outside our own country, and less in the place where we live, it is still best to live in our own place. It might be similar to “There is no place like home”.

5th puasa

went for ikea.

bought nothing.

legs hurt.

went for alamanda.

johnny's full house.

stress.

went for PARAM.

im full.
terawikh with khasif.
im sleppy.
monday coming.
arghh.
stats.
meeting.
discussion.
stress lagi...
friday.
SP
oohh heaven....




Happy Ramadhan to all muslims!

Travelling

Mama & Papa were here since last Tuesday. Horray. We’ll probably go to Genting this Saturday to celebrate Arman burfday. (Khasif bought Arman a PS2 as a burfday present but did not buy anything for my burfday!!!). Boy might be going as well. Hopefully! Not sure whether Khasif is going together or not as he should be attending Family day in LLM. [Talking of which, I remembered that Dato’ have requested to have the “back to basic” family day. (the ladies needs to wear the kain batik while all men need to wear kain pelekat) okey, I don’t think I’ll be attending our family day!].

The other saturday we’ll probably going back to kluang for a short stay as we need to rush back to kl on Sunday morning as I need to fly for Sarawak. (ohh, I cant wait as this is my 1st trip to Sarawak). Next Tuesday I’ll travel to Kuantan Pahang and middle of July I need to attend 3 days meeting in Langkawi. (oh, heaven!). oh yes, Khasif will be off for 3 days for Kota Baru end of July. Ermm seems like we are hardly meet in July. But anyways, traveling means experiencing right? Travel is all about to face the unknown and appreciate the familiar. I know it would be a tiring but just find joy in that little moment. Live in the present!

Oohh btw, Im so insists of air soya with jelly kuning yang dulu ada jual kat jln Maxwell, Ipoh and buah jambu yang hanya ada jual kat cameron Highlands tuh. Where can I get that in kl? Anyone?