Wishes...

If a genie grants you three wishes, what would you wish for?

- Enough money to live comfortably for the rest of my life
- Good health with no life-threatening illnesses and happiness for myself, my family and friends.

And, ermm…

- I would wish for more wishes! :))

World Peace!

The selfish husband!

Some people are selfish in almost every aspects of their life. They must have everything in their ways in no uncertain terms. This sounds like the behavior of a spoiled child and how do we live with selfish and uncaring husband? The rules of marriage required both are treated equally. All too often the husband thinks only of himself and his needs. This type of behaviour has to be confronted without anger. So all wifes, standup for yourself and remain calm. All husbands needs to know that a marriage is a partnership and not a place for the husband to think about himself. Although it is impossible to get along with a selfish husband who must have it his way, it is possible to avoid divorce!

Welcome to the most challenging world, Arissa!

Hello February 2011.

Whenever February arrives, we usually thinking of love, chocolates wrapped in red foil, roses and heart. And why is it roses or these chocolates are the popular demand only in February? Maybe there are few trivia lies behind it. But anyway, i have my own stories of February, at least for this year ('',). Well after 9+ months of waiting, Alhamdulillah and Praised to God, the presence of Arissa on the 5th February 2011 into ur marriage have brighten, lighten and cherish our life. We've been blessed. It's worth the pain and waiting. So here's the short recaps of the waiting :)

4th February 2011
10.30am: Tawaf Jusco Equine
12.30pm: Home sweet home. Had a beauty sleep till late evening. And MIL cooked for us that day.
10.30pm: Contraction started at every 10 minutes. Decided to wait as the next follow up checkup with Dr Nazri is the next morning.

5th February 2011
9.30am: Headed to KPJ Selangor
10.30am: Undergo the Cardiotogography test (CTG). CTG is the test of recording the fetal heartbeat and the uterine contractions during pregnancy. The results showed that the heartbeat is non active with minimal movement. Contractions started at every 7 minutes.
11.00am: Meet Dr Nazri
11.30am: Admitted
1.10pm: Induced
2.00pm: Undergo the next CTG test. Still, the results showed the same. Contraction started at every 5 minutes.
5.30pm: Went for water breaking process. Found out that the amniotic fluid was brownish-yellow. This is the sign of baby's distress. Thus i need to go for the delivery process immediately. Khasif looked so and sooo anxious. Im speechless. So Mama just says Yes for ceaser.
6.00pm: Prepared for the next procedures. PILs arrived.
7.10pm: Went for OT
7.23pm: Safely delivered Arissa. Thanked God!
8.30pm: I was sent back to my room :)

Alhamdulillah. How Great Allah is! What a wonderful and blessed life we have now. Praised to God for the wonderful moment!

Despite of having a great February, it's been a year since Mohd Faris B Khasif left us. Al fatihah. May Allah blessing will always be with him.

So all the best to my besties who are currently counting the months + days (You know who you are). Take the best care of ur self and of course, the baby!





Chow...

Welcome 2011!

A month feels like a week. That’s how fast my life is now. Not complaining but thanking God for all the blessing in life. Praise to God. Hope it's not too late to say farewell to 2010 to all. Hey, people are celebrating Eidul Fitr for month. So I guess at this particulate moment, it’s not wrong to wish everyone happy New Year. Welcome 2011!

So what are my resolutions for 2011? Tradition dictates that every 365 days, you should try to kick bad habits and start your life anew. When I was younger, I did these whole lists of New Year resolutions (of which I can’t even remember of what is it by the end of December), and half of which I broke within the first month or even the first week of New Year. Learning from experience, my New Year resolutions list gets shorter and shorter as the years go by.

So for 2011, my lists would be:

- To save more and spend less. To pay off debt. Easier said than done, but I will try!
- To be more focused, more efficient and productive in the office. It’s not that I’m not being “that” for 2010, but I’m hoping I can do it better. Though I might have looked like I achieved a bit of something for 2010, a lot of time it was quite a last minute work. I need to be more motivated. And YES, I’m also hoping to be paid with higher salary.
- I desire to be a better Muslim and slayer to Allah and I want to be able to read the Quran regularly and not just do the seasonal Ramadan reading. I wish that I could advance my Islamic knowledge where I would be implementing what I have learned.
- To be a great partner, friend, mummy (Insha’Allah), daughter and colleague to loved ones. I’m hoping that I could spend lots of quality time with them. For the past years, there were so many people in my lives that I would want to reach out or spend time with. I love all those people out there but it just that I can’t find the right time to spend with. But what is love if it’s not shown in actions right? So hopefully, I’ll be able to show it in more practical ways this year!
- Last but not least, to put down weight. I have gained so many kilos so far in my pregnancy which I'm not really sure how. My aim is to lose back those kilos during my confinement. Need to work real hard for this.

So let’s have a great start for January 2011 and hope for a better love in February 2011 (incase I have no time to update this blog in February)